Love is: KIND

1 Corinthians 13:4 – Love is: KIND.
Love is patient… love is KIND.

The world could use a little more kindness don’t you think? When I look around, or watch the news especially – man, I see a lot of Unkindness.

I’ve always believed there’s a difference between being ‘nice’ and being ‘kind.’ There are a lot of nice people in this world. They are polite, they say or do ‘nice things’ for people, and are generally agreeable people.

Kindness I believe comes from within your heart. I believe that kindness is a person’s nature, some are just are born that way. Not that you can’t be kind if you weren’t born that way – it may just take a bit more work.  

A nice person may ask someone “are you cold?” Whereas, a kind person would give that person their coat.

I know that many people use the 2 words interchangeably, but I always pause to think about it when I use the word “kind.” I’ve reserved it for a person, or an act of kindness that goes over and above just being nice.

To truly understand kindness, we need to look at God’s kindness to us. Think of how He has shown His kindness to us throughout history, and throughout our lives.

First and foremost; His kindness was shown by sending His Son Jesus to be the Savior of all time. He showed all of mankind mercy when we deserved none of it. He went over and above.

I did a little bit of research on the Greek (original) word for kind. This is what I found.

“The word “kind” is the Greek word chresteuomai, which means to be adaptable or compliant to the needs of others. The word “kind” portrays a willingness to serve and to change in order to meet the needs of others. This is completely opposite of selfishness and self-centeredness.”

Therefore:

“…Love doesn’t demand others to be like itself; rather, it is so focused on the needs of others that it bends over backwards to become what others need it to be.…”

If this is what Paul means when he says that love is kind, we must look into the mirror and ask ourselves: Do I become what others need me to be, or do I demand that others be like me? Kindness is always reaching out, thinking and focusing primarily on the needs of others. The person walking in agape love adapts to those around him in order to touch them, help them, and impact them in a meaningful way.”

What does kindness DO?


Romans 2:4 says – “…the kindness of God leads you to repentence.” I can completely relate to this verse. Because of God’s unwavering kindness to me when I was doing nothing but pushing Him away, I was led back to Him. His kindness is hard to resist! Believe me, I tried. It’s exhausting. He pursues us with kindness.

Of my 3 children, I have one in particular who is kind. She is my youngest, Jenna. She is gentle, soft spoken, and truly kind. It comes from within. She doesn’t have to think about it – it is just WHO she is. She doesn’t require attention for her kindness, she just does it. She is a wonderful example to me of someone who is kind. {I wish I was more like her!}

The most difficult part of Godly kindness is being kind to our ‘enemies.’ It might be pretty easy to be kind to those we are close to, and love dearly. But kindness to people who are unkind to us is quite another story.

Being kind to those who are UNkind to us, is when our ‘kindness quotient’ becomes really clear!

Remember these verses:

~ Luke 6:35 – Because He is kind even to people who are ungrateful and full of sin.

~Ephesians 4:32 – Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

Blessings to you!

Daily His,

Allison 

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Happily, blissfully married to the love of my life. Waited 40 years for this man! ;) 3 wonderful children - I mean TRULY wonderful. 3 wonderful step-children now - thrilled to be in their lives! 4, soon to be 5 (gasp!) step-grandchildren! Yep! GiGi Ally! ;) Love it! Loving life. Pursuing JOY in every day living. THANKFUL for more than words can ever express... maybe that's why I started this blog! Enjoy today. Enjoy yesterday's moments. Enjoy tomorrow. But most of all: ENJOY NOW!

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